Exactly, I said things like that too in attempt to lighten the mood completely joking or I was saying it to point out that we should work this out. Either way, it's not received well. Take it from me. I think maybe you could have just flat out offered to help get them there, help set up and take off. That would have been more appreciated. I don't know about you but I've noticed I don't seem to be as funny as I once was in my spouses' eyes!