You know your wife really gets me in her victim mode.
Ok, so I get that her sister and her dad hurt her- and that you hurt her in the marriage but geeze, can she get over herself??
I suffered some bad stuff growing up- mental, sexual, emotional and verbal abuse- and I certainly don't think I sound like a victim. I do talk about it from time to time- but I don't wear it like a badge or stone around my neck.
She really needs some help- have you considered that she just might be a narcassist?? Because everything is about her!
Let me tell ya- all that bad stuff? Made me strong- and as wierd as this sounds- I am really okay with who I am right now- and that stuff turned me in to the KF I am today.
