Okay, so why doesn't she just move out and file for divorce then if she doesn't want to be married to you?? That's confusing as heck for me.
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What does your current H do to you now that makes you appreciate him? What kind of things does he say to you to turn you on?
My husband now? Well he's big on domestic support. He cooks- almost every night. He does laundry and he will clean- even though I prefer to do that most of the time because he works two jobs (one on weekends- he's a teacher). It's alot of things that he does that I appreciate. He will hear me mention something in passing that I like- just making general conversation and then he will give it to me later as a gift- which shows he's listening. For instance after we first got married I had told him not to spend alot of money on my birthday. My daughter and I were walking ahead of he and my son in the store and I saw a Cabbage Patch doll- and I mentioned to daughter that I'd always wanted one but never had one growing up. I didn't even consider he might have heard me. Low and behold for my birthday what did I get? Cabbage Patch doll. He was so excited he was like a little kid. He wrote a note "I want to make all of your dreams come true". Pretty romantic.
