PA or MLC or both?

[2inlimbo]

Hi Fallgirl, I talked with you a few weeks ago on another thread. You and I are in the exact same situation right now. My H is talking about leaving, maybe this weeekend. My problem is I have been screwing up telling him why that's the wrong decision, hence being the controlling person he's come to dislike. I talked with my therapist last PM and now know if he brings it up again to say "ok". I just know that if he leaves it will be harder to work on the relationship. But I also know that if he doesn't want to be here then I should just let him go.