MIL rang yesterday. Asked how things were. Said she was glad we were talking anyhow. I`m fond of the truth. No I wouldn`t tell her the whole truth. Leave out little details like her son`s affair and physical intimidation but I said we weren`t talking, the sole extent of yesterday`s conversation being me to H"Is DD up?" "I don`t know"
Right. She said that it was great we were going to her nephews wedding in two weeks time. I said "We are? Thanks for telling me" Hmmmm
She said the they were really worried about H on his week end home, visiting every river and lake in the place. I said I thought he needed help. His personality had changed so much. I said I was doing everything I could think of to help us.
She said that H said when she asked him about us breaking up that `it wouldn`t come to that" I said that`s not what he told me. I had asked him to come to Marriage counselling too but he refused. I also said he needed Indiviual therapy himself"
But I left her in good spirits(I thought) I thanked her for her prayers. She said she`d be up to stay with us for a few days in summer.I siad she is very welcome but there is very little she and I can do at this point and that its important that she supports Roger whatever he decides as he finds decisions so difficult.
Grand I thought.
Not so apparently.
H came home bulling. "What misinformation were you feeding my family?" "Your mother rang, I spoke to her. Ask her""He repeated the question I gave him the same response and then he says "You better not be feeding my family misinformation or else...""Or else what"I said "Or else I`ll feed your family misinformation"
Ha! Ha! Ha! Big spoilt child! He`s afraid to even meet anyone in my family. Won`t even pick up the phone when it rings in case it is someone in my family.
Pass the xanax someone.
The above is about a man who cannot make a decision to save his life. Who likes to leave me dangling on a string. Who likes to bully and threaten. Who likes to blame me for EVERYTHING crap in his life. And yes, there is a mountain of crap in his life.
More anon, when I get to work but hey, he is some beaut.
