Not Shouting man. I have taken your advice in the past and it worked out well for me and I thank you for that and should have said so, however I am asking if anyone else has some further insight into the aspect of the the piecing concerning getting through conversations without them exploding into fights and into learning to trust that she will not walk away. The affair was / is a symptom of a much deeper problem with our marriage and now that it is over we will deal with that too but we must be able to talk to eachother.
