my h told me many times before he came home that he appreciates that i was still there for him.
like i said, be patient, kind, and if he comes home, let him do a lot of the talking. my h did this and he told me i could ask what i wanted and also i was able to express what i went thru and what i felt in his absence. so yes, we did talk--a lot.
since we both do not have jobs we are together 24/7 and if i go out to the store he is texting wanting to know where i am if i am gone awhile or like yesterday, i was on the phone in another room and he was wanting to know where i was.
it's been fine.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
