yay!!! thanks for your support!! I think I'm going to text him something like, "Sweet, I am totally there!!!!! Have fun getting ready for your gig!!"

You guys are right, things work better when I don't push.

as to what to wear... Comfort is key and the best option in terms of event-appropriateness (bird dress) is really too tight to be comfortable (inhibits breathing). how is it that I have so many clothes and nothing to wear???

OMG, WHERE DID YOU SEE MY PICTURE????? Crave to know!!!