This is normal sweets. You were in a marriage where you had that tenderness when you needed it and it is hard to not have that. It is hard to not know that if you need a hug you just have to ask for one.

You will find love again, some lucky guy will be blessed to have you in his life when the time is right. You know how this works right, the moment you quit looking for it, it will show up on your doorstep.

Aussie man obviously was not the one for you, if he was you the job opportunity wouldnt have come. So maybe God was protecting you from something....just a thought.

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It seems however that I date these men for a short time and then something happens...is this how things go???? I mean, in the process of dating, do things go south after a month or a month and a half????


Again, this is exactly what I am talking about. Things happen for a reason, God moves these men on for a reason. You are not meant to be with them for one reason or another. Patience Vali, something special will come into your life when the time is right.....


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09