That sounds great about Mr. Fabolous. Can't you get me one as well - LOL? I am still looking but not so hard anymore. I am going to some live music, and last Thursday I noticed a nice guy who sat opposite me but wouldn't talk to me altough I gave him a chance. So I hope he will be there again tomorrow.
I hope for you that your D will be final soon. It is nerve wrecking to wait so long.
I agree with ACJ, don't close your thread, we would miss you.
Just wanted to say hi and that I am thinking of you. I guess you are also busy and having fun with your new guy. I don't have a new guy but am still having quite some fun.
Sorry, was busy at work, traveling...a little dating...whatnot....trying to prepare my house for sale...
Not dating fabulous guy anymore...something was not right...and finally we had a chat and basically he said that although he thought he was over his ex-gf he was not. Told him adios and good luck with working that situation out...too bad...because I liked him...but it was hard getting close to him and now I understand why...
Ah well...guess you have to kiss a bunch of frogs...
So, Aussie man is back...we'll see what happens...
I admit I am in no rush to do anything...or really be in a long-term relationship...I feel kind of indifferent...and if I end up not dating for a while I will be okay with that...I am having fun though and I think that is important...but I have no expectations of anything...just living life day by day...
OMG...did I mention SpongeBob's gf called me on MY CELLPHONE????? Psycho.
The drama continues with those two...Thank God I am outta that saga.
V
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
I am sorry it didn't work out with your fabulous guy.
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Ah well...guess you have to kiss a bunch of frogs...
You are kidding - a bunch isn't enough - LOL. – These days I find the whole dating thing quite stressful, don't ask me why. I was doing alright so far and quite enjoyed it. (I wrote on my thread what happened to me.)
Good luck with the Aussie guy. Can't imagine he shares your intersts in classic music, etc.
You sound good despite it all and I am happy for you. Yes, having fun is very important.
OMG, forgot to mention that I I got a call from the OW...asking the most absurd questions. I think it just goes to show that not all is beautiful in paradise...
I feel a little stressed out by dating now too...don't ask me why...I like that the Aussie is very involved in his career thus not so demanding of my time....i feel a little jaded by this whole dating thing...
No, he does not share my taste in Opera or Classical music....but I have no expectations anyhow...so whatever...
Hope you have a fabulous weekend...
Hugs, Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
SO, Aussie man calls me last night to tell me has had this fabulous offer to move to the Philippines for the bank he is working with to do some wonderful thing...and that Australia is fairly close...like 3-4 hours away...
I was bummed by that fact. I mean a great opportunity for him and his career...but I feel like I am ....well, maybe I am just a a relationship leper or something.
I have been feeling down lately and I am not sure why. Post -divorce stuff or something...there are times when I want someone to hold me...physically hold me...like my XH used to do...and not want anything...just hold me and kiss my hair and tell me that they love me.
Is that silly or what? Have no idea why I am feeling like this...I mean, I feel ready for a relationship...a boyfriend if you will...which is why I started DATING.
It seems however that I date these men for a short time and then something happens...is this how things go???? I mean, in the process of dating, do things go south after a month or a month and a half????
I really have no clue...
I feel alone...and I try to be still and listen...but I am not always successful.
I have no idea sometimes what I am doing ...what my purpose is...I feel like I am floundering...
I hope this passes and is just some part of inner enlightenment and stuff...
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
This is normal sweets. You were in a marriage where you had that tenderness when you needed it and it is hard to not have that. It is hard to not know that if you need a hug you just have to ask for one.
You will find love again, some lucky guy will be blessed to have you in his life when the time is right. You know how this works right, the moment you quit looking for it, it will show up on your doorstep.
Aussie man obviously was not the one for you, if he was you the job opportunity wouldnt have come. So maybe God was protecting you from something....just a thought.
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It seems however that I date these men for a short time and then something happens...is this how things go???? I mean, in the process of dating, do things go south after a month or a month and a half????
Again, this is exactly what I am talking about. Things happen for a reason, God moves these men on for a reason. You are not meant to be with them for one reason or another. Patience Vali, something special will come into your life when the time is right.....
Ian, I know you're right...dating is a nice diversion...however, the main thing is that I have a lot to do...prepare my house for selling...continue to work on myself....work on my finances that became somewhat a mess during the divorce, see what else is out there as far as a career...etc, etc, etc...
So much to do!
IN truth, I KNOW none of the men I have dated are the right one...nice guys,,,but not for me....at least not for the long haul...and as much as I am not really looking for that...it is hard for those thoughts not to just pop in there...I don't know about anything anymore...I don't even know if I really will find love again...maybe not. I think I need to prepare for all possibilities. It's the practical thing to do.
I love it when I am practical...everything makes sense then and I can rationalize anything. It's like the universe is in harmony! LOL!
And I hope the something special that comes into my life is by way of a new, exciting job, selling my old house, buying a new house, finding peace and enlightenment in my life, getting a new 4-legged baby for the Diva....
So much to look forward to...
Hugs! Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
