Pretty funny. You say I'm doing so well in my situation, but I'm not getting any action! LOL!
I don't think it's bad to remind your H of what he's giving up, but it has to be kept to an extreme minimum. You want him wanting you, but NOT getting you. At some point, you'll have to put the big wall up and say NO MORE! If he wants to move on and leave you, then he has to live with the consequences.
