Glad to come back here and find you doing so well, Jeffy! I will have to go check out your profile...I tried to browse eharmony but they wouldn't even take 'separated' people!
I see where that could be a hindrance. If someone is ready for some serious relationship-building, they probably don't want to invest in someone if there is a possibility they may reconcile...granted even divorced people reconcile sometimes so it isn't necessarily the best measure, is it?
Anyway, just rambling. Happy to find you moving forward with life. I think that just going out for lunch with some people of the opposite sex and remembering what that was like would be great!