Trapt, dont go. Stay here with the people who know you and care about you. Not that there arent good people in Surviving, but we like playing with you over in this sandbox.
Surviving is like a dried up lake....its stagnant. Why do you think I kept coming back here?
I would of course disagree. The folks over in Surviving simply don't post as much because they are a bit busy with their lives as they have had the end game occur. You get a lot of straight up advice over there just as you do here, just a different tone as the folks over there have moved through the divorce process which is what I think you need help with.
Surviving is like a dried up lake....its stagnant. Why do you think I kept coming back here?
I would of course disagree. The folks over in Surviving simply don't post as much because they are a bit busy with their lives as they have had the end game occur. You get a lot of straight up advice over there just as you do here, just a different tone as the folks over there have moved through the divorce process which is what I think you need help with.
Ian
I agree, Things are really back in perspective now. I had a couple of good email exchanges. Ian, I did speak with her regarding us both being comfortable enough to call about taking the kids for whatever reason.
She also called this morning regarding my son, I guess he is running a fever. She wanted to know if I could possible take Friday of work in case he is sick again. I politely told her I couldn't. With the race in town I'm just way too busy.
Our conversation was nice, but ya know it doesn't really mean much anymore. I want to be nice for the sake of the kids and to just make things as easy (if there is such a thing) as possible. I know I need to keep my guard up as for as respect and control goes with her.
Anyway, I feel so much better, a lot less tense when it comes to dealing with her. I'm no longer focused on reconciling anymore. There is really no need to give it much thought. IF and that's a big IF it ever happens I deal with it then.
Next topic at hand. Ian your right again.(head swelling) I have indeed had trouble mixing up casual dating with a relationship. I have met a very attractive single mother with a daughter the same age as mine. It seems that we have a LOT in common, anyway we chatted for a few last night, it was fun. I could see myself asking her out in the near future.
I have met a very attractive single mother with a daughter the same age as mine. It seems that we have a LOT in common, anyway we chatted for a few last night, it was fun. I could see myself asking her out in the near future.
It seems that we have a LOT in common, anyway we chatted for a few last night, it was fun. I could see myself asking her out in the near future.
Play dates for your kids allows you some time to get to know her as well and figure out if you want to invest time in her or not..... Opportunity knocks when you finally quit waiting for the doorbell to ring dude.....
