So H just picked up D8. He said I act like i hate him. I told him I didn't . He saw a picture of a friend and I and said How cute.. We are not a couple.I told him that. he didn't believe me. Who cares ..anyways. I changed D8 and off they went. He said he just didnt want us to say we care about him..to show it..especially D8. I guess he is feeling unloved.I asked how him and OW are doing? He said fine..I said any wedding dates yet..He said..Oh yeah I want to commit polygamy.
And that was that. I told him I didn't hate him, cared for him and sometimes even missed him. He said yeah.
And they left. D8 will be with them for the next 72 hours. First time since school has been out and with OW. I am definitely freakin...
KIki thanks for the update we all know what you are going thru and it aint easy we all deserve purple hearts 4 years is a looong time and you cocntinue to do so well I have given up for the most part on my XH not on me though peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Hi Grace, How are you doing? It's been a long time.
I realize how peaceful everything has been since March and now it starts up all over again. In turn, I let it get to me. Arghhh..I hate that.
I guess also this month is the month he left me 4 yrs ago and is still with OW. She has been living with him for 6 months. I guess every so often it gets to me.
He just dropped D8 off. He stayed in the car. Not a word. Well, life goes on.
why do you say you 'adhere'? Would you take him back?
I think these people are selfish and still want to know if we are still in love with them. THey keep dipping their little toe in the water---just to check.
Best to be unavailable and keep a poker face.
You are doing great sweets...don't worry about the meltdowns...It's asign that you still have a heart.
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
