Why not?

[MrBond]

AAK,

I'm actually not sorry that you had that conversation. It was stuff that was building up and you had to let it out. Good for you.

Now like a typical WAS, he dodged and at points started to blame it on you. Don't fall for it. It's their defense mechanism. He figures that if he doesn't acknowledge the marriage, poof, he's not married.

Take my W for example, when we separated, she took her ring off. Poof. She's not married any more, just separated. When she told me that I felt like laughing in her face. Are you kidding me?

Where do they get this ostrich mentality?

Right now no matter what you tell him, he's not going to believe. You go it out and that was that. Period.

Now you need to go dark and do what you need to do to protect yourself and your kids. Detach. Right now your kids are going to need you more than ever.

{{{stuck}}}