I have no idea if I'm in this situation or not - I'm really hoping not...
I would never want to know, at all, if H and I work things out if there was anybody else. If I found out some time down the line, it would depend on how committed my H had been since the affair stopped. I definitely wouldn't want OW to apologize to me - she didn't make vows to me.
(I have asked H several times if there was something going on and he says no every time - I would think that he would just lay it all out for me if he wanted our marriage to be over instead of talking about a temporary separation and starting counseling.)
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
