I'm just curious about something. I read an advice column a few weeks ago where the writer had an affair and after the affair was well over, realized the hurt she would have caused betrayed spouse. She wanted to apologize but the advice columnist said not to because it would only bring up more pain to the betrayed spouse and it was a long time ago. Instead, she should do some other deed to make her feel better about what happened.
So, for you betrayed spouses out there, do you agree with this advice? Would you ever want to be contacted by the affair partner? Why or why not?
