WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[MrBond]

Great job. You see how she changed it to you "yelling at her". She again turned to assume the role of the victim. She totally doesn't see it.

I don't know, maybe you should be upfront and just tell her what her issues are if she's not going for help. Not necessarily now, but soon. My W wasn't getting help either for her issues, just kept heaping them onto me. So I stopped her and put my foot down on HER problems. But rather than saying that they were random problems, I had facts and events that backed them up. She actually listened then.