So it looks like soon I'll have to move to a new forum. We have an appt. Friday morning with a mediator to start the divorce paperwork and I have an appt. next week with a lawyer to go over my rights. Long story short...found out that W had been lying to me about some stuff and has a new "friend". Called her on it and after trying to lie her way out of it she went off on me and ended with "I hate you. We're done. I want a divorce now." I'm not going to fight her on this anymore. It's too much turmoil for me and for D3. So for now the divorce train is gearing up to leave the station. Maybe it can be stopped. Who knows. But for now it looks like full steam ahead. Thanks to everyone for helping me get through this so far and please keep me in your thoughts and prayers as this goes on. I'm pretty numb right now and it's all starting to really sink in. I know I will get through it and that I will be happy but for the moment it's just pretty damn depressing.
