Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[blindsided1]

A girlfriend of mine made a good assessment. She said that it is also very likely that even though OW is doing these things and trying to make a family out of the BS, H is probably also making a bit todo about having a "family" in a way to slam me and anyone else who thinks he is a loser. Like he has something to prove to everyone. This I understand, completely and it makes a lot of sense. So, family to him isn't about security and fullfilment, but more about an acomplishment. Whatever. It's as fake as a $3 bill. I have a family...K and I and my Mom and Dad and cousins and all the friends I have that have been there and continue to be there for her and us. What does he have? OW's friends and family...until they really get to know him and until his facade falls off.