WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

Well, so much for dark

She text me to work out the time to take my 7 year old to get his cast off tomorrow. I text her back the time and she called me right away

I kept it strictly business

Then she mentioned she talked to her lawyer about child support. All along she has said she had never filed anything and that her lawyer said he hadn't. Today she said that her lawyer did just to get a date. Then she said that he wants to see what number my guy came up with so we can negotiate from there. I told her that I'm fed up with her guy. First he says he and she didn't file anything. Then she says he recommended against filing. Then he files something anyway.

I told her I don't trust him as he seems to be just running up billable hours. The number is strictly a formula. There is no negotiations. I gave her the numbers my guy used to come up with the number. I said if there was any issues, I will not deal with his BS as I don't trust him and I will get a lawyer to deal with his BS

I reminded her that I was going to treat her fairly and will take care of the boys. I don't feel like her guy is trying to be fair and I'm sure she wouldn't want to be unfair.

She started crying saying she felt like I was yelling at her. I told her that I'm very frustrated about the legal BS and don't trust her lawyer. If she should know anything by now, is that I will take care of the boys

She said if I was tired of it, why don't I sign the divorce papers and get it over with.

I told her I was frustrated about the legal BS but that doesn't change how I feel and what I believe. I want the legal stuff dealt with as we have enough stuff to deal with right now

At that point I just told her that she should call her lawyer before it got to late.

She then text me back about chit chat stuff. I responded as I would to a friend. I feel like my wall held up this time