Tim, I read the words your wife said to you last night and I feel so sad for you. Again, I am so very sorry that you are having to deal with all of this!
And, I, too, am angry! I cannot help but feel that your wife is already planning an intimate encounter with this OM. She as much as said so when she told you she couldn't rule out that possibility.
Like Bill said, it is time that you start protecting yourself and looking out for YOUR best interests...in EVERY way.
You have got to decide what YOU want and how much YOU are willing to take. Are you willing to sit back and wait patiently at home while your wife is out with another man, possibly having sex with him?
She is cake-eating, just like all the others. How long will you indulge her?
NO one should have to tolerate this kind of abuse from their spouse.
I am NOT trying to tell you to end your marriage, just that you should not have to put up with this kind of behavior. No matter what your past mistakes may be, you do NOT deserve this. You have done everything you possibly could to show your wife how much you love her and how hard you are willing to work to make your marriage successful.
Tim, we are here for you. I pray that God will give you the knowledge and strength that you need.
