180s to contemplate (must be good for you)
- let her start cooking more
- go to bed at the same time as her, have a story to share each night
- pack up the video games

teach the kids how to take pictures, workout, cook

What do you do when you were dating, how did you spend time together? (Besides that you braggart! :/)

I have read what you post to others so I know you get it. I would make some goals so you can have a little affirmation for your efforts.
Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.