I really don't think that it's the money issue. One of the things she told me was that her mom raised her and her sister as a single parent with very little money, so she can too. Before she would tell me stories about how they were so broke that the three of them would share one pack of dried noodles between them. Money's never been an issue for her.
Take a look at my responses to Coach.
I'm now beginning to wonder too if she's beginning to compare herself to her Mom. She admires her alot and she even dresses similar to her. When I first asked the mom for support, she told me that I should just "let her go" and let her be happy. WTF? How about figuring out why your D was unhappy in the first place. And maybe wonder why your D was fooling around with a married guy who's older than you? Odd family dynamic.
I really wish she didn't have the OM around either. But that's her choice and she's even getting certification now to stay in that area.
What does your current H do to you now that makes you appreciate him? What kind of things does he say to you to turn you on?
I've stopped the "looking sexy" compliments to her so she doesn't feel uncomfortable.
I think rather than me fighting the OM, I need to seriously turn up the outshining him.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
