Wow, its been nearly 4 months since my last update. time to close off this story.

I've been lurking around here on occassion, but the memories are too strong. i just dont have it in me to post and read much. although i miss everyone who has helped me, and i wish the best for all.

my D was finalized last week. 50/50 time with D3 is all i really wanted and i got it. we have a clause we cant move more than 30 miles from where we are now so transfering D wont be too much trouble. child support is negligable, financial agreement was painful but i'll just make it back eventually.

I'm happy. I'm glad its done. and I'd never want to go back to her. court was easy, i felt no hesitation or regret when i signed all the docs and answered all the questions.

I guess all thats left to say is that no matter how bad it is, it will get better. it will take a while, and it will hurt, but time will truly help and take the edges off the pain.

take care all.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".