I went with my D's to their daycare field trip. We went to see Night at the Museum 2. Very funny.
I was talking to D8 heading to the movie. She told me that when W had invited me to go skating with them, she told the kids this doesn't mean we are getting together. I asked her why she said that, did you or your sister say anything to her? She said no, we were just happy that you were going.
That's what gets me riled about about my W. She just starts assuming that if she does one kind thing with me, everyone assumes we're back. I know and understand that's not the case. Why even bother to ask me to dinner, to go skating, take me to the airport, hug me, kiss me...I don't need the sympathy.
I don't try to read too much into it but her actions (at times) do not seem to follow her words. I hope that makes sense to someone.
I need to call her L and setup the mediation appointment. DOes anyone have any advice? I did find out that the 1st appointment that was scheduled, the mediator was an L from my L's office. I'm not sure if that is a good thing or bad thing.
