I know you are paying attention, AK. You are WORKING!
Perhaps you can think more about what you love about him. Can you share times when he does some things *right* in addition to all the disappointing things that you report on here?
I know that you're not crazy, so there must be something that keeps you from hating him. If you share some of that here, perhaps it will help me try on your shoes and feel differently than I have been.