You are stronger than me.

Even after all I have been through I still feel guilty or sad or whatever when stbx has something go wrong. Even now that he is living with someone else and I have moved on...I still have my moments.

My 20 year anniversary is in 7 days. Legally, I am still married as the paperwork is not signed. The tough part is we are still leagally married and he is living with another woman. That stings.

Do they ever get out of the "me mode"?