Unfortunately YOU are right smack in the middle of all this too. No matter what you say or do she is and will be a part of your life forever because of the kids.
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Everyone says this takes so long. That's the biggest understatement.
I guess that is why they say we need patience. If things work out then it is worth the wait. If not, you can at least say you tried.
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At this point reconcilliation is a very distant second. I just hate to see her like this, and I hate even worse that the kids have to.
All you can do is be there for the kids. They need you more than ever right now. Which I know you already know that.
