and u know what? if it rattles him to finally make his true decision to come home, a separation agreement is just that - a separation. not a finality. does not have to convert to a divorce.
i think its what u needed for u, and if in the end it shocks him back to reality and to you, then good.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09