Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Hey guys, thanks for reading my ramblings ! I know that sounded bad, I meant he DOES have exzcema and I have a mouth ulcer, but it was a way of me broaching him getting checked out. Its a mental thing really, I'm sure theres nothing wrong (although chlamydia is prevalent in the UK, so you never know!)

Mish.. absolutely, it was clear as day to me JUST how incapable she is of talking about emotions.. he even said he tried to talk to her about her being depressed and she firmly changed the subject like she hadnt heard him.. like 3 times!! He says he is going to write her a letter. We'll see. And yes, I am very expressive normally! Ahh, so AOS is guilt too? Well yep, would help me get the deposit back, thats true !

Hey Jeff.. thats a good point, I guess its hard for me to see it as he does, because I wasnt the one that got all foggy headed! I'm off over to his now, he is cooking me a roast dinner (yay!) and I wish we WOULD talk..

Hi Julia! Well it is a bit pants for me, I just want to clear the air and us to start afresh and forget what went on.. but theres so much air to clear, its like someone set fire to the curtains and forgot to open a window. But, he doesnt seem to want to talk about ANYTHING. Not yet anyway! We do need to talk about living arrangements at least. We seem to be together every night now and I cant imagine that will change...