Jeff expressed precisely what I was thinking. When he left it was mainly because of his issues and he went along his own journey. The consequences of this on you were huge but a by-product all the same (isn't it horrible to think of that). He will be aware that he's hurt you and given you a pretty raw deal but he will have no idea to the extent of which you suffered, for want of a better word. I think if he did realise this at the moment it would send you both backwards so much. Choose the right time and for now put it on a shelf to be dealt with later - crap as that is for you!
