All you can do is your best. I'm sorry there's still such anger and momentum. It's too bad everything can't be slowed down. Sometimes distance and time is the only answer.
Absolutely the truth. Unfortunately I, as your screen name suggests, am running out of time. I saw my lawyer today. It is going to be a tough road financially. Basically my w. is going to argue that she can't work and has no real earning potential. We'll argue that she can do something, but basically she's going to get a lot of money from me. It is funny, she sends out all these status updates on facebook about how tough she is to be braving the world on her own, but she's going to be collecting more than the average American household income from me for the next 20 years, without any obligation to do anything other than to raise her own kids part of the time. She's a damn hero.