So, yesterday, after talking to my mother and co-worker, they advised me that I should tell H about the upcoming separation agreement. I wasn't going to tell him anything, surprise attack. But I agreed and I told him. He was pissed. Said he will come and get the rest of his stuff, he doesn't want anything from the agreement, I can have it all etc. Then hanged up the phone. I wasn't frizzled much because I'm actually really comfortable with putting something in place.
But I tell you I'm a total sucker because today I called him and said, no fighting no long discussion just calling to see how you're doing. He said fine then I said, about the agreement, I just want to get something in place. He said why would I do that if we talked and he said he's coming home by the end of the summer when he's "finished his business." WTF!!! I almost responded to that but didn't, would have caused a fight. I guess I'm just suppose to wait til H finish his "business" with ow. Whatever. Will keep you guys posted.
