Protect yourself. Consult a L. Often they offer free consultations. Look in the yellow pages. Google your state statutes on the internet. Pretty interesting stuff! Ignorance is bliss but knowledge is power!
Your H has been able to come and go as he pleases, do Virago and Chuck think you should do any 180's to that game plan? a little dose of reality if he finds a locked door and his keys don't work.
Are you unprepared for this stage after all this time? Get yourself ready girl! That doesn't mean it will happen but it gets harder to turn it around now that H has paperwork in motion. I am sure if my H presents paperwork I will have shock factor too, but I've told him too often that living the way we are is not acceptable to me. I still can't bring myself to go file but if he does I have a plan for that fork in the road too, although slightly scattered.
I'm glad your dad is doing good. I didn't see you waving when you went by!
Stay strong. (((((amd)))))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
