What to do when H doesn't contact?

[mishka422]

(((Lost)))

I just want to save the marriage but don't know how.

IMHO, the only way to save a M is to save yourself first. I know your sitch is very fresh and the wounds are deep. Heal them first. You can't worry about your H, what he's doing, who he's seeing, where he is. He has pulled an 'escape'. Is that the action of a responsible man? No. He has chosen to disappear from all of his responsibilities because he can't handle them. It's hard not to worry about someone you love, but the most loving thing you can do for him and yourself and your kids is to LET HIM GO.

I do have a question though. He has changed his phone number and moved away from his family. Does he give you child support?