WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

Kittyfish,

I appreciate the candor. As Volleydog pointed out, I see how Dark helps me, but recovering the relationship doesn't seem to be obvious

From your comments, I understand what my wife said before she left. She felt that my changes were just physical. Perhaps she didn't feel that it was coming from the heart but more just actions.

Sounds like your husband didn't even do Dark (from your nasty emails comment)

My wife has said that she had tried so long to get my attention, that she fells like she has just emotionally moved on. Her analogy was like back in HS, if you were interested in someone, eventually you just run out of energy to keep trying.

Is that how you felt?

Thanks