I just wanted to chime in and wish you a good meeting with H.
I watched this movie "The Holiday" and one line really stayed with me. A guy says to Kate Winslet, "Why are you living as a supporting actress in your own life? Shouldn't you be the Leading Lady in your own life?"
I try to think of myself as the leading lady when I am talking to H now. I can't do it for as long as I would like, but, it is getting better with each practice.
Its all about your frame of mind....now add on the homeless guy image that stuck gave (OH MAN!!! I LOVE THAT & WILL USE THAT!!!!), you will be golden.
I think you have it right....talk less than him , listen openly, validate. And remember your goal tonight is to start being the leading lady of your life! I think you are going to do great! You area sexy, strong, fierce, intelligent, and patient leading lady!
