Hello all.....haven't been here in a while

[mishka422]

Kris,

I know you already know this, but I'm going to say it anyway. He was contacting you not because he wanted to be there for you, he wanted you to be there for him. He was hurting because of your brother's death and in his vast selfishness, he used you as his crutch. He was thoughtless, careless, and completely selfish just like it seems he was in your M. I'm so sorry he used you in such a way.

The counselor will only be as good as you allow them to be. Keep that in mind. You must be 100% open or the counseling will only put bandaids on your heart. Don't hold anything back from them, ok?