Thats astounding she has made no reference to it and I want to talk to him about that.. its so shocking she would say nothing after such a big seachange in his life, its absolutely indicative of the way he has been bought up and why he is the way he is.
Family of origin issues are the most prevalent type of disorder effecting R's. You and he will need to work through those if you feel they are hurting you, as I suspect they are since he stuffs his emotions and you want to express yours.
He has a rash and you have mouth ulcers? YIKE! Could they both be stress related? Quite possibly. Definitely have them checked though!
Ahhh....AOS....the WAS language of contrition. Gabe still does AOS for me, I assume out of a guilty conscience. I let him...heck, I'm not one to turn down help due to my stubborn pride. I say let him do it, even if you aren't going to be able to stay there. Did you have a security deposit? Having those things fixed would get the deposit back then, right?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Gabe still does AOS for me, I assume out of a guilty conscience. I let him...heck, I'm not one to turn down help due to my stubborn pride. I say let him do it, even if you aren't going to be able to stay there. Did you have a security deposit? Having those things fixed would get the deposit back then, right? 
