@Puppy - right now WAW is doing a fairly good job (4 lack of better term) of attacking herself, & I dont perceive much value-added @ this time in rubbing salt in. There will be a time for recrimination, D or no D, but this doesnt feel like it. Patton in command of an inflatable army in England...
SP,
You may be right. I'm fascinated by your sitch, pulling for you, and really hoping you guys make it. Yours is the "pure DBing" path, right down to "being their best friend and helping them move to their new place," regardless of infidelity, and I'm anxious to see how it turns out. I have ALWAYS said that the main underpinning of my "hardball" approach is that most LBSs can't handle it -- especially men -- but that if you CAN, then it's a good way to go. You seem especially equipped, thru your humor, "mojo," introspection and self-confidence, to be able to handle going this way; I don't think most people are.
