When I look back at the affair timeline, I was reaching out to him for MONTHS before anything happened. It all started in April when he revealed his feelings to his therapist. I sensed his unhappiness and saw what he was doing online and was worried he was considering an affair back in February. So despite everything I did to reach out to him, he did it anyway. WTF?!!!!! Like Puppy said in another one of my posts, the affair is a drug.
OK, he reached OUT to her in April, but how long had he been going to her for therapy? I'm thinking he may have already been emotionally attached to her by February?
