It helps YOU...You'll never be comfortable with yourself if you can't detach from her. You are way too focused on her and how to "win" her back you seem to be forgetting about you. If the only reason you are doing what you are doing is to get her back IF you get her back I highly doubt the changes will stick.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
