Hey Mish.. I read your posts and it reminded me of 'framing', you ever heard of that? Its a C thing.. framing and reframing yourself and others.

I agree with Jeff..WTH!? You say you cant talk to men (um...2 1/2 hours in the parking lot with CG?).. you have no personality...uh...yes you do, a heck of one!! You need to reframe yourself in your mind and see yourself as you actually ARE, not the person you thnk you are (that the negative part of you thinks you are).

You CAN speak to men. You are more than able to make conversation and friendship with strangers. You DO have a great personality.

See???? Hugs to you, xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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