Sandi and Dawn,

I believe you are both right. My H's problem with not forgiving has gone on for some time. Until that is righted, there is no hope. However, I agree with Dawn that he has set himself up for a very sad life and think this has contributed to leading him into MLC. I'm praying if/when he comes out of MLC, part of his growth going forward will include realizing that not forgiving is preventing his own happiness. But that's a lot of if's and hopes and dreams. So for now, I just can't see it working out. What does the future hold? Guess we all wish we knew that.

Sandi - I never mind your bluntness. It helps to hear straightforward thoughts and to get different takes on things.

Thanks guys for checking in. Take care!


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