This was so that you wouldn't get suckered in to your W's blame game.
If that's why, how does that help get her?
I really don't see her missing me as she felt so alone over the last 3 years that she is used to not being with me (especially since I travel for work so much)
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13