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[wolverine1997]

Thanks for your reply, I really appreciate it. No, my wife REFUSES to even consider medication. I tried suggesting that and her response was, "Their is no magic pill". Personally, I think she should have tried some type of medication. Her thinking is simply not rational. But I think that her doctor put a negative spin on medication. I seriously doubt that she is involed with anyone else. After the assuault she has had a "hate all men" mentality. Plus, sex is a real issue for her. To help the marriage over the years I have tried to focus more on her needs and wants. We have tried counseling twice but she quit both times. Plus I now think that we were going to the wrong type counselors. I've talked to the leaders in my congregation for support. They have tried to encourage her as well. Nothing seems to help. She is totally absorded in herself. I believe she has gotten advice from anti-men, overly liberal women who push women to empower themselves at all costs. She has always been independant, which is one thing that attracted me to her, but now she is out of control. She is totally absorbed in her career because she thinks that it will lead to happiness. She is even putting it before the kids at times.