do you think this was a backslide for me with the sex and the convo?? we are not religious either, but I have to say that seeking out faith and going there in this crazy time has been a lifesaver. I feel like it is the ultimate 180 for me...and if I can encourage a more family oriented activity for the girls and H is willing to go too...even better. The thing with exploring faith in God right now that is helping me the most is the idea of unconditional love...and forgiveness. It is freeing up my mind and helping me with the DB techniques. In a sense...they seem like the same thing. DB is about setting your S free and doing something for yourself...so you can grow.
No, I don't think it was a backslide. However, I was thinking "good for her" when you said no. But I did that too. No one can say and I think it will not make or break your sitch. Eventually, you'll know if it feels wrong (I think H and I are both there).
Yep, I found my higher power and fast when the sh*t hit the fan...it is great that H is willing to go. Just keep up the GAL and focusing on you.
