I don't think they treat others as they want to be treated. Karen
Certainly not, if so none of us would be on this board especially.
Kat you already realize he doesn't hear you and only takes what he wants from these exchanges. He gets an opportunity to hurt you some more, which really pisses me off for you. Acts like a total pompous ass with regard to his demands and you not being able to separate the M issues with the kids stuff. Its really not worth your time to waste on him. I like what Karen said on an earlier post, just let him know that this is what has been agreed to and if he doesn't agree now, hire a L and file a motion. End of old business, any new business? I know how hard it is to let it roll off of your back sometimes, but he has not earned the right to treat you with disrespect and disregard. These are the consequences of the actions HE chose and that is the truth. You don't owe him anything anymore. You don't owe him anything more than common courtesy. He doesn't deserve your kindness or generousity. Treat him as you would someone you were doing business with, friendly in a surface way.
Thats the best I can do, because I don't have the money and my wings are too sore to fly there and kick his a$$ for him like he needs.(((hugs)))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
