WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

Confused, I think you are too hung up on going "dark" and do not fully understand the concept. Being dark is not having contact with them. How can you listen and show compassion if you are going dark? I think it would be better for you to think in terms of being emotionally detached. JMHO.

Looks like you missed that she seems to have been telling you to work on emotionally detaching, not going dark. They are very different.

Ack!

Did I get that wrong? I thought she had suggested going dark

I think her post in page 16 said that. I reread it and now I'm not so sure

Hopefully Sandi can clarify

I'd you get a vance can you take a look at it and see what you think?

Thanks